To get into the Bent Spoon position

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With your palm facing upwards, you insert one (or two) fingers into the vagina. Make sure you’re not too deep in how to make her squirt, stop at knuckle level. Okay, so you know what squirting is all about and how to prepare yourself for the big event. I know you’re not in kindergarten, but there’s nothing wrong with a friendly reminder!

Nipple clamps and suction vibrators can offer pleasurable sensations. Female ejaculation can be a much larger amount of fluid that originates from the bladder [14] and mixes with prostate fluid before ejecting from her urethra [15, 16]. Additionally, if you haven’t turned her on enough and had enough foreplay for her Skene’s Gland and G Spot to swell, then making her squirt will be difficult. I call this increasing the Accelerators to her sex drive so that get’s crazy horny for you. It’s kind of like if your girlfriend wants to use a strap-on.

Stay patient, keep an open mind, and most importantly, enjoy the journey of discovery together. The role of the partner in this intimate journey cannot be overstated. Effective communication and understanding are the keys to a successful and enjoyable experience.

In fact, squirting from anal is pretty similar to any other kind of squirting experience — it just takes some practice. To help you, here’s a list of tips for you and/or partner(s) to learn how to squirt from anal, along with ways to intensity the experience. People want to rate their sexual experiences — especially guys — and this is why squirting gets a lot of popularity.

So take the pressure off of yourself and don’t rush the magic — just let it happen at its own pace. Next, use fingers or a sex toy to stimulate the front wall of the vagina, beginning about a third of the way up. A person may experience a tingling sensation or the need to urinate when they locate their G-spot. To intensify the pleasure, try stimulating the clitoris as well. With over 8,000 nerve endings, this powerhouse is designed purely for pleasure.

Please note this is really bad for the health of your pelvic floor and I don’t advise it. The first step in learning how to ejaculate involves masturbation. Sex therapist turned neuroscientist Nan Wise, PhD, says her research has shown that strengthening your pleasure pathways by experiencing pleasure regularly can make orgasms more accessible. Lola Jean agrees that figuring out squirting through solo play is best because you don’t have to worry about another person, which can sometimes be what causes sexual hangups and trauma.

Squirting isn’t the measure of success—pleasure, connection, and how she feels are what truly matter. The same components that create great squirting potential—trust, arousal, pressure on the front wall of the vagina—also lead to deeply satisfying orgasms even if no fluid is released. Look, technique is important, but it’s the vibe—the atmosphere, aftercare, and those little surprise touches—that really make her let go. This isn’t just about getting her to squirt; it’s about making her feel safe, desired, and completely in the moment. The higher volume, shoot-the-wall squirting sometimes seen in explicit content is often actually forced urine, as the actors need to produce the effect in dramatic quantities, and on command.

Not all women squirt the same way, some barely trickle, others unleash a full-on splash zone. Knowing that when women squirt, it’s not just about the release—it’s about the buildup, the comfort, the moment. While some debate whether squirting contains urine, research shows it can include traces of pee or uric acid, which is totally normal. What really matters isn’t what comes out, but how you welcome it—with curiosity, respect, and zero judgment. Most women will reach orgasm if they use sex toys just right. According to SchoolofSquirt.com, it can be challenging for both men and women.

Having your partner help you squirt during sex can be a wonderful and adventurous way to intensify your sex life, as well as your intimate connection. You’ll eventually start to feel a shift in the level of sensation and as you work your way up to orgasming again, it will create the perfect storm for squirting. Although Kali uses her fingers to stimulate her G-spot, she also takes advantage of the njoy Pure Wand, which “does it every time,” in her experience. We’re going to lay it all out but if you’re more of a visual learner, entertainer Kali Sudhra, in conjunction with Erika Lust, offers a complete video guide to squirting.

In fact, a study of women who have squirted in the past found that 41.8% of squirters were worried that they were peeing and 28.3% were worried that they would make a mess [13]. If you are unable to communicate these roadblocks to your partner, they won’t be able to help you to overcome them and actually squirt (and have good sex). To get into the Bent Spoon position, your partner will first lie down on their back. They need to bend their legs slightly and place their feet firmly on the bed/ground. Both will provide different types of stimulation to your G Spot and help you squirt. Give your partner feedback so they know what you prefer.