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Learn How to Squirt: Female Ejaculation for Beginners

I want to emphasize again that squirting isn’t a sign of a superior orgasm and there’s nothing defective about bodies that don’t do it. Inside the vagina find the spongy tissue located around 1-2 inches in and to the front of the body. If you’re lying on your back, fingers inserted and curled to make ‘come hither’ gesture will help you find it. Feel which sensations feel best and cause it to swell.

The launch pad is another great sex position that can get you deep inside of her at just the right angle for squirting. Lube can help prevent friction during different sex acts, from foreplay to sex. It can help heighten sensation by allowing smooth and natural movement, making physical touch and penetration more pleasurable. Once your partner has sufficient arousal how to squirt during sex, it’s time to narrow in on her G-spot. Foreplay is the best way to help build arousal and anticipation, both of which are essential in priming the body for sexual intercourse.

The fluids themselves are different, as are their sources, the mechanisms behind the expulsion, and the amount typically expelled. Both come through the urethra (as does male ejaculate), even though they originate in different places. Remember, the beauty of this exploration is in its variety and adaptability to personal preferences.

If your partner is making you feel bad about not squirting, be honest with them. Say that some bodies do it and some bodies don’t, and they’re not only hurting the chances that you ever will by stressing you out, but also hurting your feelings overall. If they keep pressuring or disparaging you, you can leave. You don’t have to perform for anyone or force yourself to be anything you’re not.

One client confessed that the stress of trying to be… Hey you, the guy who wants to actually know what he’s doing when it comes to thrusting and positions. Not just going through the motions, but creating sex that feels good, works for her, and gives you the confidence to show up fully. This article was a bare-bones guide to the wild and wonderful world of female ejaculate, but there are certain things this article didn’t have time to cover. Now, you can finally take your sex life to the next level and stand out as the best lover she’s ever had.